> Don't get me wrong, I like good meetings that result in actionable decisions.
Which is what a retrospective _should_ be! "what went wrong, what went right, how can we change our process to keep those wrong things from happening again?" It doesn't necessarily need to be a meeting. The introspection needs to happen, though. No matter what type of process you have - if it's not being constantly reevaluated for efficacy, it's just cargo cult.
Very true, it's not the format but the goal of adapting that matters. If you can discuss and fix your problem in a stand-up, do it. If you need to sit down for half an hour, take time for it. If you need 1/2 day to really understand what is happening and get a shared view to decide what to do, plan it. But make sure that you take action.
Which is what a retrospective _should_ be! "what went wrong, what went right, how can we change our process to keep those wrong things from happening again?" It doesn't necessarily need to be a meeting. The introspection needs to happen, though. No matter what type of process you have - if it's not being constantly reevaluated for efficacy, it's just cargo cult.