I am the sole founder of a year old software start-up that is modestly profitable. At this stage I need another technical person to help me develop the product further. I want to hire a top notch engineer, and am willing and able to pay a market salary. I recently pitched my start-up to a grad school classmate who is currently working at major tech company in the Seattle area, and he seemed very interested. This guy is one of the best engineers I know, and if he joined it would be a huge help to me, both from the point of view of sharing the technical work, and just the emotional burdens of start-up life. I have been looking for a kick-ass 2nd employee for a while, and this is the first one I have found who is interested in my start-up. The problem is that he wants to join as a co-founder instead of as an employee.
However, I feel that I am the one who took all the real risk in taking the start-up from scratch to where it is today. I don't want to give up half of my start-up to another person!! I am willing to pay him more than what he currently earns, plus 5-10% equity in the start-up. But I have a feeling this won't be acceptable to him.
If I am not able to hire my friend, I don't know when I will find another equally talented guy. So I am in a bit of a dilemma. I would like to get some advice on this from fellow hackers. If someone else has been in this situation from either side of the equation, and he can share his own experience that would be very helpful in making up my mind. Thanks.
You (and him) seem more concerned about issues of face than issues of compensation. This is dangerous. Quantify the value of your business and the value he brings. If you're not sure how much value he brings (emotional support? you're kidding me!), don't give equity. Come up with a plan to evaluate things in six months, or make a commitment that require hitting aggressive performance targets that are linked explicitly to his work. And make sure things vest.
One approach might be giving him the option to purchase up to a certain percentage of the company at a set value. Then figure out the value by asking yourself a simple question: if you had to sell the whole company, how much would you want for it? If he really cares about ownership he can purchase equity out of his salary over time. If he doesn't want to invest that is a warning sign he won't be contributing to growth.
And ultimately, remember that friendship and business is hard to mix. You will have a working relationship with him. He could easily come to resent working for you for "so little" at the same time you may come to resent giving him "such a good deal". People's relationships change when money is involved. At least by focusing on the numbers you won't toss away your business for nothing, and can be dispassionate with him when discussing what you can offer.