I'll go a step beyond. Most people look to others for cues. Some others bend over backwards to not conform (like the "I wake every day at 4:54 am" weirdo--just say 4:55 man!). Much more rare is the person who just does exactly what they want.
> Much more rare is the person who just does exactly what they want.
Arseholes aren't particularly rare.
What is rare is the person who does exactly what they want without ruining life for everyone around them while actually improving the world in some way.
