> Studies suggest that relying on will power is hopeless. Instead, we must find strategies that don’t require us to be strong.
nothing defeatist about it.
not to mention, why judge such a long article which is summarizing a long book by the subtitle which generally isn't even written by the author of the article...
>Instead, we must find strategies that don’t require us to be strong.
Similar to the title, is is again framing it as an either/or situation.
Reality is that strategy+ willpower is the winning approach. Making change will almost always require strength, but strategy can make that requirement lower.
Throwing out your cigarettes/beer/ junk food makes abstinence easier, but it doesnt make abstinence easier than buying more.
Willpower is effective as one component among many. Which means you're not relying on willpower alone. Much like you don't build a table with a single leg.
> Studies suggest that relying on will power is hopeless
Which would indeed be extremely defeatist.
Willpower and better strategies can both work in conjunction. Willpower is not entirely hopeless as a strategy.