As opposed to some Woodstock hippy utopia where everyone cares so much for everyone else that love conquers all?

How is that the only alternative?

I don't if they're saying other people shouldn't have a different take on life. I prefer to actually have a certain level of respect and care for my fellow humans. It's is dwarfed by my concern for myself and my family, but yeah I'm gonna bend down and give someone a hand if they drop something or need a push off the road or battery jump.